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Logic Girl posted 5 mnths ago

Women Have It Easy Today

Well not only that. Now there's all sorts of machine to make things even simpler for women - dishwasher, washing machines, dryer, rice cooker, bread machines, crock pots...the list is endless. Thank God for that, or we'd all still be slaves to the kitchen :)
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Logic Girl posted 5 mnths ago

PLATON(et)IC LOVE

What has changed in the one to two years that you see things differently now? How long have you been married? Do not feel compelled to answer the questions - I am only curious.

I have not read the book, but I have seen the movie you mentioned many years ago. The two main characters had a sexual relationship. Their love was not platonic. She made a decision to stay with her husband, that was her choice. But I thought it was stupid of her to deprive herself of true love. And I thought it was cruel of her continue in a marriage when she was in love with another man - she was being unfair both to her lover and her husband. If she could not give 100% honesty, love and fidelity to her husband, why continue? She could have "freed" him by divorcing him, allowing him the chance to find someone else he could have a genuine love with him. Instead, (IMO), she pitied him and stayed in the marriage. I distinctly remember the husband on his dying bed saying something to her along the lines of "you could have done better" or something to that effect, which gives me reason to think that although he may not have known that she had an affair, had lingering feelings for another man, he did sense that she had not been as happy as he'd have wanted her to be.

How is that fair to all three persons in that story?

I know that the world is not ideal place, but at least people should be honest about it. Why the need to sugar coat things, and make one's actions appear noble, or righteous?

It just makes a mockery of the word Love.

All the best.

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Logic Girl posted 5 mnths ago

PLATON(et)IC LOVE

"Getting attached emotionally is not infidelity."

I disagree with that statement wholeheartedly because you are emotionally attached to another non-relative woman, who is not your wife. If you cannot share your inner most thoughts with your wife, then she should not be your wife.

I read what you wrote, and it reads to me as a man loving a woman he unfortunately cannot possess (for whatever reason) in anyway but platonic.

When a man loves a woman he also loves her for her mind, her thoughts, her character, her beauty and all. Same as the love you have for Moon.

I think you deceive yourself when you label this love platonic, which is why you admit that one meeting in this lifetime will suffice.

If you and her meet again, and multiple times more, I think it would progess into something more than platonic.

Just my honest impressions.

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Logic Girl posted 5 mnths ago

Relationship Paradigm

Let me ask you this, if I may. Are your platonic friendships with males solely over the Internet and through chatrooms? Or do you go out with male platonic friends for coffee, and other activities without your husband? And would your husband be ok with you going out alone with male platonic friends?

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